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Gather round, gather round, one and all. Today our topic is one of much excitement: kinky sex. But before we get there we must take a peek into my past, so you can understand how I have suffered for this cause. Now, please understand when going into this story that the spirit of it all was admirable. The carrying out was less so. This article will offer suggestions that, had my partner been aware of such things, may have lessened my plight.
It was summer My small tank of a friend had persuaded me to drink copious amounts of alcohol before taking me to a frat party. Shortly after arriving, I found a companion for the evening and we made it over to his place. This is where things went terribly wrong. Grinning saucily up at me, he did as he was told. However, when I said bite, I meant really more of a nip, something soft and inspiring. What I got was a bruise that lasted three weeks.
It looked like someone had shot a baseball at my thigh at a whopping 60 mph. For days I could not fathom how it got there, I was too consumed with agitation at the eight hickies he had dispatched across my neck. The biting kink of realization was characterized by sheer horror: Yes, those were teeth indents. The moral of this story is thus: A a of my sexual situations are uncomfortable and weird and B bite others as you would like to be bitten. Now, to be sure, I am happy he bit me.
And that is what characterizes much of the kink. As unabashed as I am in ranting about my junk and sexual prowess to you nice people, I too occasionally remain mum on my desire for hair pulling, ass smacking and mouth covering. When I was hooking up with a BDSM dom bondage, dominance, sadism, masochism back in fall quarter, I felt I was finally getting an outlet for all the wild things I really wanted to do. When did sex become so routine? Now, a lot of people are freaked out by the idea of kinky sex.
You can imagine why. Their mind goes to the freaky German dungeon porn they came across when they clicked the wrong pop-up on the internet. But rest assured, there are ways to be kinky in your interactions without freaky torture machines. For those uncomfortable with kinky sex, that is just fine. This article may not apply to you. However, there is the chance that you might be with someone who digs some kink one night and you biting kink have some awareness as to handle the biting kink.
A big disappointment occurs when an individual actually asks to get kinkier, after summoning the courage, but their partner, unsure, half asses it.
Fake it, guys, fake it. If your partner senses your inhibition or your lack of commitment, they become disappointed and may be discouraged to ask in the future. Another important note for the unsure is this: Try everything once. Now you know.
As a rule, try to keep open minded about everything until you can say for yourself that it does not appeal to you. Now that we have these things in mind, we can move on. First, let us visit the very important distinction of biting verses nipping. Biting is sometimes for necks, shoulders and less sensitive areas.
Be aware of sensitivity prior your chomp fest. Perhaps the most important thing you can take away from my advice on bighting is to do unto others as you would have them do for you. Bite experimentally; start off light always.
Or if they are fairly quiet, maybe your partner is a bit less sensitive and you can take that as a cue. Aside from biting, there is the classic ass smack. You smack, and then rub your palm in circles in the biting kink area. This ificantly lessens the pain and gives it more of a pleasurable edge. Plus, you get a good grope in. Scratching is also wonderful. My last partner looks like he was mauled by a pack of disgruntled cats. If they like the biting, you can be sure they like the scratching. Try not to rip off a layer of skin, if you can help it.
Hair pulling should be done as close to the roots as possible, with a handful of hair, not a small section. This reduces the pain and instead causes a refreshing sensation. I have had my hair pulled improperly. Imagine if you will, yours truly seated upon a frat kitchen counter, with my head basically touching my back. Humans are not supposed to bend that way, or they would have named us Gumbies. When it comes to choking, I, personally, am not a fan. I was making out with this guy and he started doing it and I stopped him.
However, some girls are super hot for this. After discussing it with my associates, the key is not to suffocate her durbut instead to apply light pressure. Place your hand on her neck, and press slightly with biting kink flat of your palm. Then minimally increase the pressure, if encouraged by your bedmate.
Now, while I may personally dislike choking, mouth covering is biting kink thing altogether. Some of us are louder than others. Roommates are often less than thrilled with our sexual presence. My favorite remedy to this conflict of interest is for a guy to muffle my cries with his palm. In terms of being tied up, oh yum. But, you can absolutely pin them down. This is unbelievably hot. Do that. Sex is best in my opinion with a bit of a power struggle. Saying things. Having them say things. Commanding them to do things. For those of you who have deigned to read my vibrator article, you may remember the anecdote of my partner informing me that I must petition him on whether or not I could come.
This is a prime example. Approximately three to five times. If done properly, it puts you in a trance like state. I shit you not. I will leave out other things for fear that they cannot be published. All in all, it is important to push your boundaries and try new things. That and an inkling as to where the clitoris is. So my darlings, break the bondage of standard sex and get a little spicy!
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