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I hope something that we can always continue to benefit from is technical proficiency and know-how with the tools canning bdsm our trade. One of mine is caning. Forget that bamboo crap you see at toy stores. It sucks. It breaks. Occasionally I use synthetic materials — delrin and other plastics. And they look so innocuous…. They require a firm stroke with good aim. I like mine unfinished — no varnish, no handle. I find an unfinished cane more erotic, more earthy, more intimate. They require a bit more care since the rattan quickly becomes dehydrated. Others prefer to be bent over something at the waist.

Some like to be bound, some like to be unbound. If your partner is going to be either kneeling or bent over a bed or laying face-down on a bed, consider the height. The last thing you want is some over-complicated bondage position interfering with your enjoyment. Pacing and rhythm are everything during a caning scene. This includes the rhythm between different kinds of canes, as well as the rhythm between strokes.

A common mistake many tops make new to caning is to haul off and start whacking fast. My partner also an experienced caner believes it takes about seconds to process a cane stroke. Strike yourself once or have someone else strike you. Canning bdsm are a series of sensations that happen when a rattan cane hits.

A white-hot line. A sinking of searing sensation into the body. Vibrations throughout the anus or cunt. A radiating warmth. A feeling of surrender travelling up the spine. If you move to fast, you will curtail the heightening of pleasure that happens after a stroke lands. And your bottom will be in resistance mode instead of flying subspace.

A cane stroke occurs mostly in the wrist. Let the rattan settle into the skin. Let the skin receive it, continue to absorb the sensation. Let it feel the intimacy of the natural materials. This can be deliciously agonizing. Then you can settle back into your slower, more persistent rhythm. A cane far surpasses an instrument like a riding crop that tired old cliche of the dominatrix… It is much mroe flexible, much more versatile, it can be gentler, or more punishing. Most people have them — a place somewhere on the bottom that simply begs for punishment. And you can use that knowledge to play gently with their he.

Sometimes giving them exactly what they want. Sometimes giving them something very close. Sometimes completely witholding. Remember how tender the skin is becoming as you lay the rattan cane into your bottom. Think about tracing your nail along a welt, or even a knife. Remember that a wet cane or a cane hitting wet skin has a completely different feel. I disagree.

Besides obvious concerns like wrapping or splitting skin, your worst risk in most cases is simply giving an unpleasurable caning. The best way is to make sure your partner is warmed up and you start slowly. Being very attuned to body language watch and see canning bdsm your partner is clenching his or her ass muscles will help you determine pacing and intensity.

You can practice caning on an inanimate object. One of the best things to do is to sprinkle a pillow with powder. Put a dark pillow case over it, and strike it. The poweder will allow you to see how your strokes land. Watch where your tip lands. Listen to the sound of the rattan slicing the air and learn canning bdsm match the sound with speed and intensity.

I use canes on the following body parts, with the safest listed first:. The Joy of Caning. Reading Time: 5 minutes by Katharine Hawks used by permission from The Frugal Domme I hope something that we can always continue to benefit from is technical proficiency and know-how with the tools of our trade. Have fun!

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